Hello Peasants! How's it going?
As you can see from the title (quoting a lovely Shawn Mendes song here - as you do) promises are something that shouldn't occur in life. Promises are always broken in one way or another. Promises are meant to be broken which is why i've decided to not do promises anymore- because this is the cause of most people's upset/anger/frustration/doubt and was the cause of mine. Old friends would promise they would never hurt me and although they didn't physically it didn't stop them from doing it emotionally. How can you trust someone when they break promises- don't make promises. Promises cause all sorts of drama. There's no life without drama, drama is all around us whether it's a falling out with a friend, a scandal concerning a partner or family member, or just watching reality tv ;)
Luckily at this point in time i am a drama free zone, there is a bit of drama around me but i personally have no drama. I used to constantly be followed by drama, constantly fall out with friends over stupid mistakes or petty disagreements but i think, along with my friends, we have all matured enough to know life doesn't need anymore drama especially from petty high school arguments - forgive and forget if you can ( i can forgive, i can't forget).
However even if you have no drama, you still are intrigued by everyone else's drama - I fall victim to this - i love gossip and hearing about everyone's else's gossip. I try not to get myself involved in everyone's else's situations but everyone has an opinion. personally the majority of arguments and disagreements are absolutely pathetic - like seriously its not worth it, either you become friends again or you cut off all ties with that other person but i know how hard that can be as i was in the same predicament a few years ago - if i cut off ties with this one particular friend then i cut off all ties with all of my friends - the costs of having a large friendship group, on the other hand i wasn't sure i could survive being in the same room as the person let alone having to forgive and become friends with that person again. But i realised life is too short for all of this pointless shit everyone argues about and loses friendships over and relationships over- it's best to try and forgive the person you've had an argument with or try not to have such stupid arguments and if you can't do either of those things the only option is to forget them.
It never was forgive and forget it's forgive or forget - you can't do both it's impossible.
So as part of the progress from my previous post Control, Alt, Delete, which you can read here: http://allaboutmesiobhano.blogspot.co.uk/2017/06/control-alt-delete.html i am cutting off ties with promises, i'm not going to promise anything and i will ignore the phrase "i promise" unless i genuinely think they mean it or i trust it to not get broken because i don't like getting hurt by broken promises and i'm sure it the same with everyone else. And i'm going to keep my opinions out in the open, i don't care if people don't agree with me, that's life, but i'm not going to hide my thoughts and feelings out of fear of judgement it's not happening.
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